Love With Your Eyes Open
Finding love should feel exciting, not questionable.
Dating has changed. Your standards don't have to.
Move with intention, trust what you see, ask the questions that matter, and give yourself permission to slow down before becoming emotionally invested.
HER ERA Dating Concierge
Clarity Before Commitment.
A private dating safety screening, background check, and profile audit service for women. Quiet, professional, and built on discretion.
HER ERA Dating Concierge provides research assistance using publicly available information and third-party databases. We are not licensed private investigators. Results are informational only and should not be used as the sole basis for legal decisions.
Date with Discernment
$49.99
Clarity Before Commitment.
Navigate today's dating world with confidence before becoming emotionally invested. This session is designed for women who want to date smarter from the very beginning, whether you need help creating a stronger dating app profile, learning what questions to ask, recognizing red flags, or deciding whether someone is worth pursuing.
You'll Receive
- ◆ 45-min phone or Zoom consultation
- ◆ Dating App Profile Review
- ◆ Bio & Profile Recommendations
- ◆ Profile Photo Guidance
- ◆ Ask the Right Questions
- ◆ Recognizing Red Flags
- ◆ Dating with Discernment
Turnaround: 48 hours
Red Flag Radar
$19.99
A Quick Check. Smarter Dating.
- ◆ 30-min phone or Zoom consultation
- ◆ Background and public records review
- ◆ Criminal records review
- ◆ Marriage and divorce records
- ◆ Address history
- ◆ Social media presence review
- ◆ Employment verification (when available)
- ◆ Personalized findings summary
- ◆ Red Flag & Green Flag Reference Guides (PDF)
Turnaround: 24 to 48 hours
It's Handled
$29.99
Deeper Research. Greater Peace of Mind.
- ◆ 30-min phone or Zoom consultation
- ◆ Everything in Red Flag Radar
- ◆ Extended background review
- ◆ Additional public records review
- ◆ Address history and neighbor lookup
- ◆ Employment verification
- ◆ Personalized findings summary
- ◆ Questions to consider
- ◆ Red Flag & Green Flag Reference Guides (PDF)
Turnaround: 48 to 72 hours
Crowned Confidential
$59.99
Comprehensive Dating Report. Complete Discretion.
- ◆ 45-min phone or Zoom consultation
- ◆ Everything in It's Handled
- ◆ Review of up to two potential matches
- ◆ Comprehensive findings summary
- ◆ Questions you should ask
- ◆ Personalized action plan
- ◆ Red Flag & Green Flag Reference Guides (PDF)
Turnaround: Up to 1 week
Dating Concierge Intake Form
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Why I Created HER ERA Dating Concierge
Charlotte Howard
Founder of HER ERA | Certified Relationship Coach
These days, the dating pool has THE AUDACITY.
Let's be real...dating isn't easy.
I've experienced a lot over the years. Through my own dating experiences, I've learned that asking the right questions, paying attention to the details, and trusting your instincts matter.
Long before I created HER ERA Dating Concierge, I was already conducting background checks on the people I dated.
I'm the person my family, friends, and coworkers call whenever they meet someone new, need relationship advice, or want a second opinion.
I've even had friends I hadn't spoken to in years reach out and ask:
"Charlotte, do you still do background checks?"
or
"Can you help me check this person out?"
That trust is what inspired me to create HER ERA Dating Concierge.
This isn't about living in fear or assuming the worst about people. It's about learning to protect yourself.
Let's be proactive instead of reactive.
A small investment today can help protect your peace, your safety, your family, and your future.